For an overseer, as God's steward, must be above reproach. He must not be arrogant or quick-tempered or a drunkard or violent or greedy for gain, but hospitable a lover of good, self-controlled, upright, holy, and disciplined. He must hold firm to the trustworthy word as taught, so that he may be able to give instruction in sound doctrine and also to rebuke those who contradict it. Titus 1:7-9 (ESV)
The Bible is not sex or pleasure negative. And you see that in Proverbs 2. And so, you can't really look at this issue...
Then Moses said, "Now show me your glory." And the LORD said, "I will cause all my goodness to pass in front of you,...
Let not mercy and truth forsake you. Bind them around your neck. Write them on the tablet of your heart and so find favor...
