When the dispute became violent, the commander feared that Paul might be torn apart by them and ordered the troops to go down, rescue him from them, and bring him into the barracks.
The Bible is not sex or pleasure negative. And you see that in Proverbs 2. And so, you can't really look at this issue...
In the second year of Darius the king, in the sixth month, on the first day of the month, the word of the Lord ...
Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you....